You can impress your lover. You can make him/her love you more than she/he already does. You can get the full attention of your lover and get him/her focused only on you. Here are some tips to get your lover impressed.
be yourself! Be real! Don't assume or act what you are not. If you are an introvert, don't try to be an extrovert. If you are an extrovert, don't try to be an introvert. Trying to be what you are not will make you never to be what you are. There will always be someone out there who will love you for who you are. There is somebody out there in the world who is in search of your person, so fearlessly be yourself.
be easy-going.
Surprise your lover with gifts. This can sweep him/her off his/her feet.
learn to spend quality time with your lover. This is the greatest gift you can give to him/her.
don't be shy to say "I love you." Such simple and sincere statement can make your lover's day.
Reschedule your programs sometimes to favor him/her.
Show him/her how much you care.
lavish enough affection and cash on him/her.
be considerate! Act a little bit unlike you.
Help him/her to find solutions to his/her problems.
be open-minded and don't hold grudges.
forgive him/her when he/she offends.
Show some respect.
Reassure him/her that you care and love him/her so dearly.
Discuss interesting topics with your lover.
Handle your lover's weakness constructively and positively. Yes, he/she have weaknesses which might not surface immediately. What you make of those weaknesses will either impress him/her or grieve him/her. Nothing truly has a meaning except the meaning you give to it. If you wish to correct him/her in any act, do it kindly and respectfully. Just because he/she doesn't do it your way do not mean he/she is wrong. The virtue of friendship is not finding the perfect friend, but loving the imperfect friend perfectly.
Come of age in this day and age, and come to focus with things to do to impress your lover. Impress your lover with those great qualities of yours. Let your acts be the ones that will keep your lover awake, thinking about you. Your impression can make the life of your lover better. It really can.
Don't pack the bags of your sweet words, lovely touch, caring and deep affection yet! I once stumbled on this statement in a book: "It is amazing how a woman's attitude could be altered in seconds whenever she receives a kiss from the man she loves." Remember that we are love beings, and love is the fuel that drives the vehicle of friendship forward and upward, and the fuel is mostly made up of words, touches and actions. William Ward observes, "Love is more than a more - it is a verb; it is more than a feeling - it is caring, sharing, helping, sacrificing."
Finally, let your impression be positive, uplifting, inspiring and encouraging. Let your impression be marked by love, goodness, kindness, integrity and sagacity.
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Namaste!
Immortality
Thursday, 7 March 2013
Do We Really Need Others to Survive?
"When we survey our lives and endeavors, we soon observe that almost the whole of our actions and desires is bound up with the existence of other human being," observed the well known scientist Albert Einstein. He added: "We eat food that others have produced, wear clothes that others have made, lives in houses that others have built...The individual is what he is and has the significance that he has not so much in virtue of his individuality, but rather as a member of a great human community, which directs his material and spiritual existence from the cradle to the grave."
In the animal world, it is common to observe instinctive companionship. Elephants and cattle move about in herds, carefully guarding their young. Ant lives in colonies, sharing common goals and assignment. Lionesses hunt together and share their food with the males. Dolphins play together and have even protected other animals or swimmers in distress.
Among humans, however, social scientists have noted a tendency that causes growing concern. They observed that there is a rapidly growing tendency for many to isolate themselves. People want to live their own lives and strongly resist having others invade their space. The view has been expressed that this attitude has led human society to be more prone to emotional problems, depression, and suicide.
In this regard, Dr Goleman stated: "Social isolation, the notion that one doesn't have anyone else with whom to share private feelings or maintain close contact doubles the possibility of sickness or death." A report published in the journal science concluded that social isolation is as significant to mortality rates as the habit of smoking, high blood pressure, elevated cholesterol, obesity, and the of physical exercise.
For various reasons then, we really do need others. We cannot stand alone. Man, by nature, is a gregarious animal and hence he lives in the company of his fellow human being, where he draws and extracts nourishment for sustenance and livelihood. Life becomes easy and free flowing when it is associatively supported, upheld and fulfilled. Any man who tries or aims at succeeding alone has failure as a byproduct. Albert Einstein observes, "Almost the whole of our actions and desires is bound up with existence of other human beings." Juanita Bynum, the gospel musician, got an inspiration on this topic and she sang one of her famous songs "I NEED YOU TO SURVIVE."
In the animal world, it is common to observe instinctive companionship. Elephants and cattle move about in herds, carefully guarding their young. Ant lives in colonies, sharing common goals and assignment. Lionesses hunt together and share their food with the males. Dolphins play together and have even protected other animals or swimmers in distress.
Among humans, however, social scientists have noted a tendency that causes growing concern. They observed that there is a rapidly growing tendency for many to isolate themselves. People want to live their own lives and strongly resist having others invade their space. The view has been expressed that this attitude has led human society to be more prone to emotional problems, depression, and suicide.
In this regard, Dr Goleman stated: "Social isolation, the notion that one doesn't have anyone else with whom to share private feelings or maintain close contact doubles the possibility of sickness or death." A report published in the journal science concluded that social isolation is as significant to mortality rates as the habit of smoking, high blood pressure, elevated cholesterol, obesity, and the of physical exercise.
For various reasons then, we really do need others. We cannot stand alone. Man, by nature, is a gregarious animal and hence he lives in the company of his fellow human being, where he draws and extracts nourishment for sustenance and livelihood. Life becomes easy and free flowing when it is associatively supported, upheld and fulfilled. Any man who tries or aims at succeeding alone has failure as a byproduct. Albert Einstein observes, "Almost the whole of our actions and desires is bound up with existence of other human beings." Juanita Bynum, the gospel musician, got an inspiration on this topic and she sang one of her famous songs "I NEED YOU TO SURVIVE."
Why and What You Must Do to Live a Higher Life and Become a High-Flier
It is very awesome and blissful to wear a crown if you deserve it because success is a ladder, which cannot be climbed with hands in your pocket. Living a higher life is like riding a bicycle. You stop moving when you stop pedaling. A journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step, you can live a higher life, become a high-flier and cause many to become high-fliers also and live the higher life destined for them. It all starts with desire, determination and ability to continue in spite of difficulties and turning a stumbling block to a stepping-stone.
Don't just live or exist, but be part of the system and participate in the system that drives the progress of humanity. You were created in God's nature to rule your world and create favorable circumstance for this favorable occasion you want in your life. You were not born to service or just to succeed but to be significant and thrive, and this you must fulfill by living a purpose- driven life. You must do all you can to make a godly impact. You must go beyond anything you have ever dreamed of. Whatever godly thing you are into, do it with excellence and always think beyond the now. You must have a pleasant personality and healthy relationships. Get knowledge and wisdom. Be focused and learn to do away with anything that tries to limit your success. Develop yourself holistically!
You must always think positively because we are shaped by our thought and as a man thinks so is he. Keep your mind pure, because when the mind is pure, great ideas will flow from it. Never stop reading and learning because readers are leaders and learners is earners. Write your own success story with your pen in your own hands, because authors are immortals. You must learn to keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions; small people always do that, but the truly great people make you know that you too can become great. You can rise above your limitations. You can overcome the challenge of life. Be bold, for everyone admires the bold. Aspire, live and aim higher.
Accept your uniqueness and always be yourself. Be the best you can be. You were born an original; don't end life being a copy. You are living in the best time and season to manifest the real you. You have the potentials to be a success and a success you must be. It's only the successful ones in our society that are admired, distinguished and celebrated. Impact your generation and the next for good. Live an exemplary life and leave a legacy.
Higher life is a great life, for he who brings sunshine to other lives can't keep it away from himself. Always use your resources and time of your life to touch and enrich other people positively. It pays to live a higher life. It is a great experience being a high-flier. Soar above the clouds because the clouds are nothing but your stepping-stones.
Don't just live or exist, but be part of the system and participate in the system that drives the progress of humanity. You were created in God's nature to rule your world and create favorable circumstance for this favorable occasion you want in your life. You were not born to service or just to succeed but to be significant and thrive, and this you must fulfill by living a purpose- driven life. You must do all you can to make a godly impact. You must go beyond anything you have ever dreamed of. Whatever godly thing you are into, do it with excellence and always think beyond the now. You must have a pleasant personality and healthy relationships. Get knowledge and wisdom. Be focused and learn to do away with anything that tries to limit your success. Develop yourself holistically!
You must always think positively because we are shaped by our thought and as a man thinks so is he. Keep your mind pure, because when the mind is pure, great ideas will flow from it. Never stop reading and learning because readers are leaders and learners is earners. Write your own success story with your pen in your own hands, because authors are immortals. You must learn to keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions; small people always do that, but the truly great people make you know that you too can become great. You can rise above your limitations. You can overcome the challenge of life. Be bold, for everyone admires the bold. Aspire, live and aim higher.
Accept your uniqueness and always be yourself. Be the best you can be. You were born an original; don't end life being a copy. You are living in the best time and season to manifest the real you. You have the potentials to be a success and a success you must be. It's only the successful ones in our society that are admired, distinguished and celebrated. Impact your generation and the next for good. Live an exemplary life and leave a legacy.
Higher life is a great life, for he who brings sunshine to other lives can't keep it away from himself. Always use your resources and time of your life to touch and enrich other people positively. It pays to live a higher life. It is a great experience being a high-flier. Soar above the clouds because the clouds are nothing but your stepping-stones.
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